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Happy belated birthday, Proust!

I don’t know him, actually. Not really. I browsed his works, but could not follow him thoroughly. But I found out about this game of Q & A named after him in a popular music magazine (Mojo, I think) in an article about The Beatles and how interesting was Lennon’s answers to that questionnaire. It was actually a standard Victorian game, a period’s version of personality test. Proust filled the questionnaire in 1880s. His answers discovered in 1924, hence the name it has now. In 1993, Vanity’s Fair began to use the questionnaire to interview celebrities and placed them in every edition’s last page of the magazine.

Well, I don’t expect Vanity’s Fair will interview me at any time soon. Or ever. But it would be fun to do the questionnaire now, hours before maghrib in this year’s Ramadhan.

Here it is. Mine.

What is your idea of perfect happiness?

Forming a new knowledge in my head and talking about it with a loved one and make her smile.


What is your most marked characteristic?



What do you consider your greatest achievement?

Embrace The Karaoke with my horrible singing ability.


What is your greatest fear?



Who is your favourite hero in fiction?

Teto on Romo Mangun’s Burung-Burung Manyar, Nyai Ontosoroh, and Batman, off course.


What historical figure do you most identify with?

Sutan Sjahrir and John Lennon.


Which living person do you most admire?

Arief Budiman, Malala Yousafzai,
 Jacky Chan.


Who are your heroes in real life?

My Mom.


What is the trait you most deplore in yourself?

Unsure and slow.


What is the trait you most deplore in others?

Victim/Hero mentality.


What is your favorite journey?

To the unknown.


On what occasion do you lie? 

When it is inevitable .

What do you consider the most overrated virtue?


Which word or phrases do you most overuse?

“Tenang saja.”


What is your greatest regret?

Neglecting dentists.


What is your current state of mind?

Chaotic, thank you.


If you could change one thing about your self, what would it be?

My nose.


If you could change one thing about your family, what would it be?

My Dad’s irresponsibility.

What is your most treasured possession?

My memories.

What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery?

Living without faith in anything.


Where would you like to live?

Beside someone I grow old with.


What is your favorite occupation?

Searching words while listening to good music.


What is the quality you most like in a man?

Clear mind.


What is the quality you most like in a woman?

The ability to make me see the world differently.


What are your favorite names?

Ayu, Nadya, and Naura.


What is your motto?



Written by hikmatdarmawan

July 11, 2014 at 5:13 pm

Posted in budaya, Rupa-rupa

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